Love and sex. Like chocolate and peanut butter, they go great together. And yet, some people believe that seeking sexuality makes you superficial, shallow or even a bad person.

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What's more this myth — and it is a myth — constantly frustrates singles who are seeking long-term partners.

To help this problem, TRUE has developed its latest Relationship Readiness Tool— the Sexploration test.

It's the only psychological assessment and matching tool of its kind, and it fills a tremendous void in the resources offered to seriously minded singles.

Sexuality and physical attraction alone do not make a lasting relationship. If you try to build a foundation on just sexual attraction, the relationship will eventually crash and burn.

That, of course, is no secret. It's also a mistake to ignore this crucial element of compatibility when searching for a long-term partner.

You're smart and savvy for evaluating sexuality and chemistry in a potential mate; you're not being superficial, shallow or a bad person.

Sexuality is a healthy and important facet of your adult identity. Exploring the intricacies of your sexuality enhances self-awareness, and it promotes self-growth and the successful communication of your sexual needs to your partner.

Sexual needs are not limited to merely physical needs. Sexuality is an extension of your personality, spirituality, attachment and communication styles, and level of commitment. It's a healthy form of vulnerability — one where you surrender your entire being to your long-term partner.

Successful surrendering requires trust, devotion and commitment. Clearly, there is nothing superficial or shallow about this.

Here's the truth:

• Sex and attraction are elements in virtually all scientific models of romantic love and attachment.
• Along with money, sex is one of the leading causes of relationship conflicts.
• Issues of sex are among the most difficult to agree on in long-term relationships.
  

Now that you know how crucial sex is to compatibility, wouldn't it be nice to have a tool that helps you:

• Address the issue of sexuality for personal awareness and self-growth.
• Understand how sexuality and physical chemistry figure into the broader recipe for long-term compatibility.
• Search for and find more compatible matches.

That tool now exists — it's called the Sexploration test.

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